2011 – a hope rather than a prediction January 12, 2011Posted by nicholas gill in #fail, 2011 predictions, Behaviour, Contagious, Cwora, digital, Ecelman Digital, Edelman Digital, Quora.
Usually about this time of the year the great and the good pass judgement on what will be this year’s shiny new things that we should all cut and paste into our client presentations and PR whoring look at me documentation. Yet again I have failed to do this but here’s a couple of great examples if you haven’t found them already.
No, rather than do any predictions this year, I have a hope.
And the hope is that we all behave more like gentlemen in 2011.
I’ve dropped down my level of participation in the online world of late partly because of workload and wanting to spend time without my phone in hand while doing things at home but also because I’ve been bored by the boorish behaviour.
You know the sort, ranting at everything and anything, shouting #fail!! at the earliest and slightest opportunity, talking about me, me and more me and indeed those proclaiming statements of such nonsense and expecting them to be taken seriously. I’m already hearing you say, “well, it’s free speech cockface, if you don’t like it, unfollow me.” Which I have or probably will soon. So there, ner.
I was particularly moved recently watching Jeremy Clarkson’s documentary on World War II – where a small group of British army chaps took on an almost impossible task to blow up whatever it was armed with courageousness, ingenuity and gentlemanly conduct. While this was moving enough, what got me was the passage where on trying to escape, a lone gunner on a doomed ship was holding his own against the might of the German army who were literally shelling him to death. When the soldier finally perished, his German aggressor was so taken by the spirit of the man that he made sure he contacted the British authorities to pass on his complete respect and awe of this man who had stood against them. The man was awarded a special honour. It is not known of what became of the German commander who made this gesture in the midst of fierce battle.
I doubt this would happen today. We are obsessed with ourselves. Whatever the business benefits and cultural shifts of openness and connectivity social media has delivered, it has also given us a narcissistic and self-indulgent culture. And one where ranting and raving is the norm. We would be more likely to tea-bag that soldier and TwitPic it than make an astounding human gesture.
So this year, let’s try and act more like gentlemen shall we? Do the digital version of holding the door open, helping a lady with a pram navigate the stairwells of the tube and standing patiently in the queue. We should do these in real life too. Obviously.